So who am I?

I am not that important in this context, rather how I can serve you? But I understand of course that I need to be someone for you to be able to trust me, so who am I?

My name is Tobias Meyer AND I am a man just like you. I have a wife, children, dogs, house and a company to run and all the problems we men usually struggle with. But I am also in search of that thing, the question of being a man and what it means to be a man, the difference between you and me is really none.

Almost ten years ago, my wife had already signaled for a long time that I was lost (we are still a couple with now 20 years together) when a female course leader said "You need to step into your masculinity" Whereupon it hit me really bad...FUCK!!!... I don't know what that is? (The panic was just total). And so the more or less crazy hunt for what it was that was missing began, sometimes I was inspired, other times scared and upset, I have lived in remote Finnish Lapland, both with my wife and by myself, where I have been unable to do anything other than face my inner dragon. But I practiced over and over again, I thought I was a king, warrior, magician... or third-stage man...yes yes you get the idea... and everything usually fell flat on the ground.

But by forking out and correcting course again and again, what I was looking for on the outside started to rise from within. Which made all the difference and here I am today ready to serve.